Moms do not have it easy. When I was breast for the first time I realized that motherhood was not as I had been told. Despite having read magazines and one or two books and many articles. Nothing had prepared me for what I was living. However, instinct surfaced and saved us from many potential disasters.
What was not so easy to learn in those first weeks was the subject of bounds. Yes, when we become mothers, it seems that also back to childhood or adolescence stage where everyone thinks about the future of our life, in this case say about our performance as parents.
Despite having three children, one of the things that achievement is not yet understood this phenomenon full intrusion into the lives and upbringing exerted by moms just born baby.
It is true that a tribe to raise a child needs, but when we talk of tribe we mean a kind of network of emotional support where moms can rely expressed, talk about everything that oppresses us and beyond postpartum .
The tribe is to empower the new mom with knowledge of other mothers so she can go choosing your own parenting style. However, support is sometimes confused with the crazy idea of replacing rookie mom, under the premise that you need help to raise your baby and do not know how.
It is likely that in fact, new moms do not know everything that corresponds to breeding, but that does not mean under any circumstances that anyone should replace your paper, however, strong support would be put at their disposal information on care, data doctors or specialists to be consulted.
Recently, at the end of one of my classes with pregnant, a girl came to wonder how he could do to make your mom did not mind her decision, she had her previous experience to see how it had gone to his sister when tube your baby and mom all the time wanted to make decisions as if she were the mother rather than the grandmother.
Learn to set limits to our family is never easy, and less to our mothers, those grandmothers who often saved our lives, but also sometimes lead us to the limit of tolerance when they forget they already made their own experience .
I know that is not at all simple the idea of having to tell any of the grandmothers because moms is us, we appreciate your help thousand, love and solidarity, but that the decisions we take.
The first is to do it from love, from the understanding that they do so with the best intentions and that many decades when they themselves touched their fight his place as mothers in this world, because, they forget to have passed.
So new moms, breathe much, take it easy, and with his best face and best voice they have, let him know these other women who love us and want our children anything they want to do, always, always They should consult to us, to the detail that they seem insignificant
When you have to say "mom me"
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