Being a mother is living in the eternal question. In fact, since pregnancy we begin to emerge thousands of questions. One of the main undoubtedly is, "how do I care?".
This simple question is much deeper than it seems at first glance, because it involves emotions, physical care and all the logistics involved in having a baby in charge.
When the baby is still in our belly it is impossible to stop thinking things like "know recognize his cry when hungry or when it hurts something?". "What if I drop water when bathing?". "How do you put a diaper?".
These and many other questions haunt our head as the pregnancy progresses, but it gets even worse when we face the reality in the face: when we have the creature bawling after having been on the boob a good time. Or when it's two o'clock and found no reason for the inconsolable crying, after changing diapers, fed him, rocking him back and give him food.
Usually, after a few days of being at home with our baby, we begin to convince us that something we are doing wrong, because not fit in our head the possibility that it is normal for a baby to cry as much, or you want to eat every time, or prefer the calientitos arms and bobbing his mother to the lonely, cold bed.
Les I have news ladies: they are not doing anything wrong. Babies cry, and some cry a lot. For some, too, it is unbearable separated from his mother or father; just they perceive them away and ... what do you think? They cry. there is also babies who ask boob every half hour, every hour or every 45 minutes.
It is important to know that their babies do not always cry because of hunger, or because you are doing something wrong, crying babies is the only language they have to express their needs and those needs may also be emotional, that is, does not like being alone is cold or is desperate because you can not sleep. Even the need to suck is not always hungry, it is simply that the suction calm his anxiety; so just stick them to the teat fall asleep. What that sounds like a hickey? Yes it is.
It is essential to be clear that a newborn is that it is not a mature person ... come on, not even a child can talk and express what you feel or what you need. A baby needs us 100% 24 hours a day.
It is normal to have doubts, okay you feel that maybe something we are not doing it correctly, but that is because they are things we'd never done. In these cases it is worth asking, who call us to clarify doubts and, above all, give us peace; that's what most needs a mother with a baby just unwrapping: safety in their role as mothers.
Doubts a new mom
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